Hi David,
Thank you very much, now I was able to log-in and test it.
Do not worry about the questsions, I actually like to help people, and there are no stupid questions. I understand the plugin is very complicated to deal with at the first sight.
Turns out, there was a bug in the code, with the ‘Exactly like’ operator. It was simply not executed correctly for the checkboxes. I have fixed it via the plugin editor, and will include this in the upcoming release.
I have also changed the gender drop-down settings to this. I believe that is the configuration you need with that filter.
I may also note, that if you remove the double star ** before the ‘Select All’ line, it will be unchecked, it might work better in your case, as the filters default is unchecked. I have also changed the values to {get_values} styntax, so that they are parsed automatically. You can of course change that back, if you like it that way 🙂