Hi Tonya,
I hope you are doing fine as well 🙂
You are looking to turn off this option right here: https://i.imgur.com/AnLjQtg.png
I know that options is a bit off position, but unfortunately it is related to both filters and exclusions in the same way, and I could not find a better position for it yet. It basically disables posts, that does not have any taxonomy from the relations assigned for them. If you want to learn more about it, you can check this documentation.
